I'm not a big fan of guys who have no balls. They are called eunuchs. Visceral reactions were fine when I could claim stupidity as a defense, but I have reached the age where intellect serves me much better. I file it in the back of my mind & later, if I so choose to revisit it, I can then devise a much better & fitting response.
Decisions are best made when you are detached from emotional stress. I'm getting much better in not giving a shit about pretty much anything. That is what happens when you start having more sand in the bottom of the hourglass than in the top.