You can do all you can to plan for something, but no matter what you try, you never are prepared for what life throws at you. I quit trying to make plans years ago. I just live every day as it comes.
You come into this world with nothing & leave it the same way. People worry about all kinds of trivial things, & they sometimes never understand what is truly important, until it is too late. But life goes by in a flash. You can't roll it back, but wouldn't that be a cool thing to be able to do?
Man, the things I would do different. And anyone who says they wouldn't change a thing...Well, I don't want them around me, because they are freaking liars. Everyone, has something that they wish they could have done differently. Some folks lists are just shorter than others.
I guess that is what makes us human. Caring enough to want to change what we found out was a mistake we made. I roll back to a memory when we on the football team, dunked a dude (no names) head first in a toilet full of turds. Picked him up & vertically held him upside down & in he went. Yeah, it was what we called bonding back in the day.
Of course, that isn't something I would change, but it would be cool to do it again.